When capable starts to feel costly
Strengths-informed coaching for professionals seeking more sustainable ways of working
You're someone others rely on. You hold things together, navigate complexity, and keep showing up when it matters.
Responsibility has a way of finding capable people, and once it does, it tends to stay.
Yet something has changed. The work still gets done, but it no longer feels the way it once did.
This work explores what that shift may be revealing, helping you understand what is shaping your energy, what may need to change, and what could support more sustainable ways of working.
The purpose isn't to help you do more. It's to create more room for the work that matters most.
How this work often begins
While every situation is different, there are patterns that often bring people here:
When your energy is running low
You may still be functioning well but noticing that work is taking more out of you than it used to. Recovery may be taking longer, and focus is becoming harder to protect.
We explore what these changes may be revealing and consider small, practical adjustments that support a more sustainable rhythm.
When something feels out of alignment
The work may still be going well, yet something feels less like yours than it once did. Parts that used to feel meaningful may have faded, the role may have grown in a direction that doesn't quite reflect how you work best, or you may be considering a change in role or direction.
We explore what has changed, what still matters to you, and what might need to be approached differently.
When responsibility feels heavier than it used to
You may be holding more than you once did, with little space to step back and reflect on how you're sustaining it.
We explore how responsibility is currently being carried, what genuinely needs to remain with you, and where workload, support or ways of working may need to shift.
Moving from insight into practice
Understanding what is happening is an important starting point. From there, we explore what your role, circumstances and priorities may now require.
Strengths crafting supports this process through small, practical adjustments within the context of your work and life. Depending on what emerges, an experiment might involve changing how you approach a recurring task, protecting time for work that needs focus, drawing on a strength differently, or shifting where support or responsibility sits.
These are experiments rather than dramatic changes. They help you learn what happens when you change how work is approached, structured or carried, and use what you learn to guide the next adjustment.
The aim is not insight for its own sake. It is using that understanding to make thoughtful decisions about how you work and the contribution you want to make over time.
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“I completed a strengths-based profile and coaching session with Sharon from Optimising Strengths, and it gave me a much deeper awareness of my strengths and how to get the most from them. It really helped me refocus across my career, my business, and my roles within Contemporary Coordination.
My goal was to find how I could make my work more sustainable, enjoyable, and energising. Over the past 11 months, I’ve made several changes, and this coaching really helped me reach a much better place to continue the important work we do without compromising my own health and wellbeing.”
- Rachel Lafain, Senior Social Worker | Director, Contemporary Coordination
COACHING OPTIONS
Which level of support is right for you?
The shape of the work depends on what you're navigating and what would be most useful right now. All coaching options include the Skills Discovery Expert Profile, an optional preparation call, and a one-to-one debrief. What differs is the level of support available to explore, apply and integrate what emerges.
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Debrief
For when you want to understand what your strengths, energy, and patterns may be revealing
A one-to-one debrief to explore your Expert Profile and gain greater clarity about what the insights may mean for you and your current work.
✓ Skills Discovery Expert Profile ✓ Preparation call (optional) ✓ 1:1 debrief session (60 mins)
Includes
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Anchor
Builds on the debrief, with two further coaching sessions to explore what you want to focus on, choose a small, practical experiment, and start to apply what you've learned.
For when you want to move from insight into a first change
✓ Everything in Debrief ✓ 2 additional coaching sessions ✓ Strengths crafting resources ✓ Guided reflection resources
Includes
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Integrate
For when what you're navigating is unfolding over time
Provides space to reflect, experiment and learn over time, helping embed more sustainable ways of working as your role, responsibilities or circumstances change.
✓ Everything in Debrief ✓ 4 additional coaching sessions ✓ Strengths crafting resources ✓ Guided reflection resources ✓ Light email support
Includes
Coaching begins at $495 + GST for the Debrief package
Additional travel costs may apply for in-person coaching. Reduced rates may be available where an organisation engages multiple professionals.
The Skills Discovery Expert Profile provides a structured way to explore how your strengths, energy and patterns of use are showing up in your work.
It considers all 80 skills through performance, energy and use, distinguishing Realised Strengths, Unrealised Strengths, Learned Skills and Weaknesses. This gives us a richer starting point than simply identifying what you are good at.
The profile can help make visible what you do well and find energising, capabilities you may use less often, things you perform well at greater energetic cost, and areas where support or a different approach may be useful.
We explore what the profile may be showing alongside your role, responsibilities, relationships and circumstances. The aim is not to treat the results as an explanation of you, but as a starting point for understanding what is supporting you, what may be costing more than it appears, and what may be worth approaching differently.
Understanding your strengths in context
“Through this process, I gained clarity about which aspects of social work genuinely give me energy, and how these align with my values, interests, and ways of working.
The strengths-focused work helped me connect the dots between what challenges and stimulates me intellectually and the environments in which I do my best work. As a result, I was able to identify and move into a role that feels like a true embodiment of those insights: a values-based workplace that recognises and values me as a person and as a team member, offers responsibility, and provides work that is meaningful, challenging, and mentally engaging.”
- Charlotte Blue, Social Work Practitioner
Frequently asked questions
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No. You may begin with a specific goal, challenge or decision, or simply with a question or pattern you want to understand better.
If the starting point is less clear, coaching can help you make sense of what is happening and clarify what deserves attention.
Where you already have a clear goal, we can use a strengths-informed lens to support progress towards it.
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The process begins with completing the online Skills Discovery assessment, which typically takes around 30 minutes. You then receive your Expert Profile and have time to review it before we meet.
An optional preparation call gives us a chance to discuss your role, current circumstances and anything you would particularly like to explore.
The one-hour debrief provides space to make sense of your profile in the context of your work. If you choose Anchor or Integrate, further coaching sessions then allow us to explore what deserves attention, test small practical changes, and learn from what happens over time.
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A profile debrief can provide valuable clarity and insight. Anchor and Integrate create additional space to work with that understanding in practice.
The advantage of continuing is that you can test what emerges rather than relying on insight alone. Further sessions provide space to identify what deserves attention, use strengths crafting where helpful, try small practical changes, and return to reflect on what happened and what you learned.
The additional sessions can also be used to explore a particular area in greater depth. That might include building confidence or resilience through your strengths, navigating a difficult conversation, giving feedback, clarifying a career or role decision, or working with another goal that matters to you.
Anchor gives you a first cycle of application and reflection, helping you move from understanding into a practical change and learn from the result.
Integrate provides more time for that process to unfold, allowing you to experiment, refine your approach and embed more sustainable ways of working as circumstances change.
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Skills Discovery gives us a shared, structured starting point for noticing patterns that can be difficult to see while you are immersed in your work.
Because it considers performance, energy and use, it can help distinguish between what you do well and find energising, what may have more to offer, what you may perform well at greater energetic cost, and where a different approach or support may be useful.
The profile does not determine what should change. We explore what it may be showing alongside your role, responsibilities, priorities and wider context, using it to guide reflection and identify what may be worth exploring further.
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This work does not begin with the assumption that strengths should simply be used more.
It looks at how your strengths, energy and patterns of use are interacting with your role, responsibilities and wider context. The aim is to understand the pattern before deciding what, if anything, needs to change.
Sometimes that means changing how you use a strength. Sometimes it means changing how work is structured, supported or carried.
Where change is useful, strengths crafting provides a way to test small, practical adjustments and learn from what happens.
Finding the right starting point
Many people arrive with a question, a pattern they've been noticing, or a sense that something deserves closer attention.
You're welcome to get in touch in whatever way feels most comfortable.
A complimentary 30-minute introductory conversation is available if you'd like to talk through what you're navigating, ask questions about the process, and work out which starting point may be most useful.
Other ways to engage with this work
For Leaders
If your role is moving into leadership, or increasing responsibility means more is beginning to depend on you, explore leadership supervision and coaching.
For Organisations
Explore how strengths, responsibility and reliance shape leadership practice, team dynamics and the conditions that support more sustainable ways of working across your organisation.